It might seem hard to some guys to ask a girl out on a date, but once you learn how to actually go about it everything becomes easy. Most of the time guys fail to get the girl they want because they are too nervous when they ask them out. If you don’t know what to say when asking a girl out then please keep reading and learn some effective strategies you can take advantage of.
Get to Know Her
Getting to know the girl you are interested in asking out is very important. By getting to know her I mean finding out what she likes to eat, where she likes to shop, what does she like to do for fun, and what type of food she likes to eat.
When you know these different things about her it will make it easy for you to ask her out. This is because you’ll be able to suggest that favorite place she likes to eat or that nice place she likes to go shopping when you finally ask her out. Even if you don’t talk to her directly you can talk to some of her friends and ask them what she likes to do or what she’s interested in.
It’s been proven that the more confident you are the better chance you’ll have of getting just about any girl you ask out to say yes. As I stated earlier, when you are nervous it will cause you to be to even approach her, and if you do get up enough nerve to approach her you’ll start stuttering and looking confused because you’re not confident.
Most girls are attracted to confident guys even if they’re not very attractive or their type. When you approach you should approach her from the front so she sees you coming instead of sneaking up behind her, as this will demonstrate more confidence. As you are approaching her keep your head up straight, have good posture, and keep eye contact with her. As soon as she sees how confident you are you won’t have to say much to convince her to go out with you on a date.
Don’t Be Desperate
Desperate guys don’t get dates, and it’s that simple. Women love guys that act as if they don’t really need them, as opposed to those guys who beg and look desperate. Just like some guys love a good challenge, so do girls. Also, when you beg and desperately plead your case to her as to why she should go out with you it will just make her not want to go out with you even more.
Even if she accepts your offer and decides to go out with you keep your calm and remain cool. Remember, girls like a challenge so don’t show her that you are overly happy to be going out with her. Instead make her feel like she has to be on top of her game during the date to really win you over and impress you.
Even though most girls are more attracted to confidence instead of appearances, it doesn’t hurt to make yourself look presentable. You increase your chances of her agreeing to go out with you when you look good. When you have decided that you’re going to ask her out make sure your hair is neatly styled, you have on some good clothes, and some good shoes.
If you want to go all out put on some nice smelling cologne or a fragrance you know she’ll love. Not only will she like the way you look and what to get to know, but when you look good you’ll feel good and your confidence will be high.
When you ask a girl out you want to be straight to the point. Don’t beat around the bush or try to make small talk about irrelevant things. As soon as you approach her just simply tell her that you want to take her out to do whatever it is you know she’ll like doing. Since you have gotten to know her first when you ask her out you should automatically know what interests her. You’ll be surprised at how easy it is to ask a girl out when you just come out and ask her and she says yes.